Attending a M.E.N Party

… as a guest

If you've been invited by a friend / trade or you’d like to come to one of our parties or if you are visiting Sydney for a short stay, simply email your name, a recent picture, the name of the person who referred you to us and a Gaydar profile (if you have one) to men@sydneymen.org and we’ll get back to you.

… regularly on the snail mail list (Sydney and environs)

If you have been to a party and want regular information sent to you, simply email your name, picture and Gaydar profile to men@sydneymen.org, attend a party as a guest and complete and mailing list application form at the party, you will then get our regular newsletter in hard copy through the post or by email.

… regularly on the email list (Interstate and International)

If you have been to Australia and are thinking of coming back one day and want up-dates, simply email your name and picture to men@sydneymen.org and and we’ll get back to you.

... you gotta be HOT yet warm

That means good looking and friendly.

We appreciate that this can be widely and differently interpreted.

Whilst we would never discriminate on the basis of race, age, cock size or HIV status, we ask that you be HOT yet WARM (you look after yourself, you are proportionate in height and weight, masculine and friendly).

However, guests are not invited back if they have trouble with our mantra, meaning not being relaxed naked, being impolite, unfriendly or showing inappropriate behaviour, or trying to bareback anyone.

... you must be 16 years old or over

In NSW the legal age of consent is 16 years of age. We have always remained scrupulously legal so you can invite guests 16yo and over, but it remains illegal for anyone under the age of 18 to be served alcohol. So, if you make a carefully considered judgement and DO invite 16 or 17 year old guys, then YOU look after ‘em. Make sure they stay with soft drink or the non-alcoholic punch; watch out for them during the whole evening; make sure their head space is together and take responsibility for them. Your care of them must be taken very seriously.

... photographs

MEN parties are NEVER photographed.